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I have meant to write this piece for a long time but kept delaying it. Been so busy coping with my new life with this new job in a new country which I have been doing for a year now. Anyway, my last entry was me now being 33 and still single so I thought, maybe, I should try signing up for dating apps.

Let me start by warning you that these apps aren't for everyone really. I have questioned these apps but still I signed up just for the heck of it. I don't know, maybe because I really hate socializing so you won't find me in pubs or clubs all by myself. That is just not me. It is possible to find me in a library but realizing I am not in some romantic comedy film made me think it is impossible for the future love of my life just popping out of nowhere while I sit there crying over some YA novel that I'm probably too "old" to even be reading.

Anyway, after swiping right in a couple of dating apps. Here are some things I've learned from it.
  • MAKE SURE YOU'RE NOT BEING CATFISHED is the first of course. Have you seen Sweet Bobby on Netflix? Need I say more?
  • Don't wear your heart on your sleeve (unless you're both sure that you are each other's THE ONE)
  • BE SAFE, ALWAYS. Oh god you just don't want to be the subject of the next Netflix documentary.
What else? There's really a lot more to say. I haven't been on many dates to be honest. I always trust my gut feel on the person who I am talking with. If my gut says no, then we will not even go on first date.

I've met one, still talking to that one, but I'm still not sure if he's the one, if I'm the one, or what. 

Well, that's another story to tell.

Oh dear, I just swiped right and it's a crazy ride. What did I signed up for?

Xo,
Ria

October 28, 2024 No comments

 


I can't believe it, I am 33! I still feel like a teenage 22-year-old. I recently celebrated my 33rd season and here's a quick recap of what happened and a couple of photos as proof.

  • It's my very first birthday in the UK and I celebrated it with my new family here.
  • We had a barbecue party, a week before, Aurora Borealis decided to show up in the UK. I'm taking it as a sign from the universe that I am bound for great things here.
  • We went to Birmingham! I found my shopping haven (for now)
  • I got myself a new phone! I got that natural titanium iPhone because of TTPD color palette. Me as a swiftie of course.
  • Have you seen that Baby Reindeer mini series? Got me stuck in a baby reindeer rabbit hole for a week.
  • It was also my first time to see an airshow.
  • We rode that thing in the fair, I forgot what it's called. I'm always in for the thrill rides.
  • Hmm what else? I might have missed a couple more things but let the photos speak.











That's about it! Hopefully I find more time to update this blog more often.

XO,
Ria

June 11, 2024 No comments

 


It's funny how we all complained about how slow January was but I just sneezed and we are now in March. In 3 or 4 months (?) time, I'll be celebrating my first anniversary here in the UK. How time flies! I could say that I have adjusted very well to work, it's definitely not a walk in the park but I am okay. Weather-wise, the cold never bothered me. Oh who am I kidding, I miss sunny Manila but I am not mad at the cool UK breeze that doesn't melt my makeup easily. Hehe!

I am trying my best to be better with my communication skills. I want to prepare myself in case I would want to continue the corporate role that I left in the Philippines. Or whatever, I just really want to speak better English. Then I am thinking of also learning how to drive, not this year though maybe next? I don't know but it is definitely a life skill that I should learn. Aside from that, I'd also like to have a theme for my room. Blame it on all the reels that shows pretty clean and aesthetic rooms.

As for any specific life updates. I HAVE NONE, STILL. HAHA.

Maybe on my next entry, I might have something to talk about. Hahaha anyways, I'll leave you all for now. Talk to you all again on my next blog.

Xo,

Ria

March 12, 2024 No comments

In 2021, I wrote Que sera, sera on Twitter (now X). There are only a selected few who know what I went through in the last two years. I had a series of many highs then suddenly followed by even more lows. In 2023, I persevered and got to where I am right now.

To be honest, I still haven't gotten over many of my losses in the last couple of years. I am still sensitive about the topic and my real friends know to not open it up and ask me about it and I am very grateful for that. When 2023 entered, it all really started with a simple prayer: Please don't let me down this time.

By the start of 2023, I already know that I am moving to a different country. But that was also how I started my 2022, so when 2023 had the same beginning, I prayed really hard that it wouldn't be the same heartbreak over again. So when I talk to people who are helping me, I sound uninterested and unhappy. Maybe it was my way to prepare myself for whatever was coming. I just don't want to get my hopes up again and be heartbroken in the end.

FFW to today, I am now in the UK. Working in the healthcare industry, which I always wanted as a kid. As a child, I grew up wanting to be a doctor that's why I took up clinical psychology. Who knew fate had other plans for me. As I said in my year-ender post on Facebook: Started 2023 with a prayer, ending 2023 with the answer. God's answer this time was a yes.

So maybe, I will start 2024 with another prayer and let the Lord decide on what is best for me.

Happy new year, everyone! Cheers to new beginnings! 

January 14, 2024 No comments
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